2022-12-17
Family psychologist's advice to men and women about marriage.
This page groups together useful family psychologist's advice to men and women about marriage. Advice on psychology is grouped and placed on several pages. The transition is made by clicking on the appropriate button: "CHILDREN" - consultations on the topic of "Children", starting from planning their conception, "RELATIONSHIPS" - advice on relationship issues, "SUCCESS" - on self-development and success, "HEALTH" - consultations related to the topic of beauty and health, "HAPPINESS" - advice on the path to happiness. "QUESTIONS" transition to the form where you can ask a question. "TESTS" - section with testing.
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For men, the best period for choosing a wife is 25-33 years. After 30 years, problems with the search begin. They start looking among seventeen-year-old girls, and they still think about their peers. As a result, normal men with a decent income and living conditions enjoy a stable single life.
Advice from a family psychologist to girls about problems in relationships with peers "remember the serious problem of infantilism in young people." They usually do not take responsibility. Passion, that is, sex, is not love. It passes, but so does the most valuable thing a girl has for a man - youth. "Passion cannot be friends with deep love, If it can, then they will not be together for long," wrote Omar Khayyam.
It is simply easy to find a guy (girl) for sex. It is difficult to find a guy (girl) worthy of becoming a husband (wife). A beloved and loving woman or man. Love that comes from the heart wants reciprocity. Love without reciprocity brings suffering. You need to love no less and no more than yourself. Then everything will be fine.
Psychologist's advice on the optimal age difference between a husband and wife - the best age difference between a husband and wife is 7-14 years. In this case, it is easier to overcome crisis periods, in particular the crisis of 40 years. It is known that this crisis covers the period of 40-50 years for almost 66% of men and women. In the case of a difference of 10 years, a man enters a crisis at 40 years old, and his wife is 30 years old, and the children are no more than 10. This family format gives him the strength to bypass it. Then the wife enters a crisis at 40 years old. Moreover, many women are superimposed on another crisis. The children are already grown up. At that time, the husband begins a very good 12-year period, and he helps his wife get through her two gray stripes.
In the case when the difference is small, we have a situation when two people enter a crisis. The children are grown up. And a breakup occurs. Of course, the purely sexual potential of a couple of the same age is better than that of a couple with a 14-year age difference.