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Psychology pages are maintained by specialists with full education (specialists and masters) specializing in practical psychology. Their work is aimed at an individual approach to each client and his full development as a person.

It should be noted that, currently, all over the world, the need for psychological assistance is great. A practical psychologist is a specialist who is able to listen, hear, analyze, draw conclusions and provide recommendations and suggestions on a particular issue. One of the essential forms of work is psychological counseling.

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It is simply easy to find a guy (girl) for sex. It is difficult to find a guy (girl) worthy of becoming a husband (wife). A beloved and loving woman or man. Love that comes from the heart wants reciprocity. Love without reciprocity brings suffering. You need to love no less and no more than yourself. Then everything will be fine.

A psychologist, when providing psychological assistance, must adhere to certain principles and requirements. These principles are necessary for the provision of psychological assistance to be effective, meaningful and socially acceptable. Among the most important ethical principles of psychological assistance are the following:

A friendly attitude towards the client, aimed at making the client feel calm and comfortable. The psychologist must be able to listen carefully to the client, trying to understand him. Provide the client with psychological support and assistance without judging him.

The psychologist's orientation to the client's norms and values. This can allow the client to be sincere and open.

A ban on giving advice. A psychologist, even despite his professional and life experience and knowledge, cannot give guaranteed advice to the client, in particular because the client's life and the context in which it occurs are unique and unpredictable. The client is the main expert in his own life. It is optimal when the client receives advice from several specialists and chooses those that suit him.

Anonymity. No information communicated by the client to the psychologist can be transferred without his consent to any organization or other persons, including relatives or friends.

Basic provisions of counseling:

• helps a person choose and act at his own discretion;
• helps to learn a new form of behavior;
• contributes to the development of personality;

Forms of providing psychological assistance:

• psychological counseling;
• psychological diagnostics;
• psychological information;
• psychological accompaniment;
• psychological support;
• psychotherapy;
• group work;
• psychocorrection.

Preventive forms of psychological assistance are counseling, diagnostics, information and support. These forms of assistance can be provided both orally and in writing. Especially at the diagnostic stage, a combination of written questionnaires and oral and written consultations is used.

Psychological counseling is a set of measures carried out by a psychologist and aimed at providing the recipient of services with information on psychological issues, emotional support, assistance in making informed decisions and assessing their own psychological resources to change behavior, to develop responsibility for their own behavior, self-awareness and change their attitude to the problem, increase stress resistance and psychological culture. In the process of counseling, the client's responsibility is emphasized, that is, it is recognized that an independent, responsible person is capable of making independent decisions in appropriate circumstances, and the counselor creates conditions that encourage the client's strong-willed behavior. The core of counseling is "consultative interaction" between the client and the counselor.

Psychological counseling solves the following tasks:

• Clarification (clarification) of the problem that the client is facing.
• Studying the client's personality in order to find out whether the client will be able to cope with his own problem on his own.
• Informing the client about the essence of his problem, about the degree of its seriousness.
• Clear formulation of advice and recommendations to the client on how best to solve his problem.
• Providing the client with additional practical advice when he has already started solving his problem.
• Teaching the client how best to prevent similar problems from occurring in the future.
• Transferring elementary, vital psychological knowledge and skills by a psychologist to the client.

Psychological diagnostics - assessment of the current psychological state and individual psychological characteristics of the recipient of services, monitoring his mental state, determining the need and optimal methods of psychological rehabilitation.

Psychological information - informing the recipient of services to form an understanding of the patterns of functioning of the human psyche, the behavior of people in extreme conditions, the formation of skills and methods of managing the capabilities of one's own psyche, providing self-help and first psychological aid to other people, as well as the readiness and desire to receive professional psychological assistance if necessary

Psychological support - a system of socio-psychological methods and methods, the use of which contributes to the socio-professional self-determination of an individual in the process of restoring his abilities, value orientations and self-awareness, increasing his competitiveness and adaptability, overcoming stressful and other life situations and preventing the occurrence of psychological crisis states

In youth, most people choose material wealth as a way to achieve happiness. By buying better real estate and things, people are more or less happy and satisfied.

Over time, some people realize that there is a more important path to happiness. Namely, the path of spiritual development, which allows you to achieve inner happiness.